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🧸 How to Manage Separation Anxiety at Daycare

  • Writer: Gigis Little Steps
    Gigis Little Steps
  • Oct 14
  • 2 min read

Starting daycare is a big step for both children and families. It's completely normal for some little ones—especially the youngest—to experience separation anxiety when saying goodbye to Mom, Dad, or their primary caregiver. At Gigi's Little Steps , we understand that these times can be difficult, but we also know that with patience, routine, and communication, children can adapt and enjoy their new surroundings.


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💕 What is separation anxiety?


Separation anxiety is an emotional reaction that occurs when a child feels fear or sadness upon being separated from their parents or caregivers. It usually occurs between the ages of 6 months and 3 years , but can also affect older children, especially at the start of a new school year or when there are changes in routine.


🌞 How we help at Gigi's Little Steps


  1. Warm welcomes: Every morning we greet the children with a smile, their favorite song, or a small ritual to help them make the transition from home to the center.


  2. Consistent routines: Children feel more secure when they know what to expect. That's why we maintain consistent schedules for arrival, meals, naps, and daily activities.


  3. Constant communication with families: We understand that trust is key. We share updates, photos, and messages throughout the day so parents know how their children are feeling.


  4. Emotional Comfort Zone: We allow children to bring a comfort item—such as a blanket or stuffed animal—while they adjust.


  5. Time and understanding: Each child adapts at their own pace. We don't force the process; we support them with empathy, play, and lots of love.


🏡 Tips for families


  • Practice short breaks at home. Spend a few minutes with a trusted family member and gradually increase the time.

  • Always say goodbye, even if they cry. Leaving without warning can increase insecurity. A brief, affectionate goodbye builds trust.

  • Maintain a calm demeanor. Children pick up on adults' emotions. If they see you calm, they'll feel more secure.

  • Create a farewell routine. A kiss, a hug, or a special phrase ("See you after snacks") helps anticipate the reunion.

  • Recognize their achievements. Celebrate each day as they leave with more confidence.


🌈 With love and patience, adaptation comes


Separation anxiety is a temporary and completely normal phase. Before long, children discover that daycare is a place where they can play, learn, and feel safe . At Gigi's Little Steps , every little step counts, and we're here to support families through this process with empathy, communication, and a whole lot of heart. 💛

 
 
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